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2021 Advanced Weekend of Recovery, Silver Bay, NY

  • 23 Jul 2021
  • 12:00 PM (EDT)
  • 25 Jul 2021
  • 3:00 PM (EDT)
  • Silver Bay YMCA, Silver Bay, NY
  • 0


(depends on selected options)

Base fee:
  • People sharing a room must show proof they are vaccinated. Each of you will need to register separately.
  • Includes 2 nights lodging (Friday and Saturday), meals from Friday lunch thru Sunday lunch, and all program fees.

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2021 Advanced Weekend of Recovery on
Connection, Relationship and Using Our Voice

A Collaborative Advanced Weekend that is open to all Alumni from either Taking Back Ourselves or MenHealing  Communities 

Finding Our Truth, Being Ourselves that piece in each of us that refuses to be silent...*

*Audre Lorde: I have come to believe over and over again that what is most important to me must be spoken, made verbal and shared, even at the risk of having it bruised or misunderstood. 

The 2021 MenHealing/Taking Back Ourselves Joint Advanced Weekend is open to all TBO or MH Alumni. Registration for this weekend will open on March 16th and close on July 9th. You are encouraged to register early, as we anticipate this weekend may fill quickly. All participants must be registered in advance of this event; NO walk-in registrations accepted.


We invite our MH/TBO Alumnus to create an image of the self you know
at present
and the self that you feel emerging as you heal.

We welcome you to the 2021 Advanced Weekend for TakingBackOurselves and MenHealing Alumni.  Finding Our Truth, Being Ourselves Advanced Weekend will focus on recognizing the forces that sabotage recovery on all spectrums of gender, identity and with others and within oneself, with that piece that refuses to be silent.

With large and small group process, music, authentic movement, yoga, and art, our Alumni Weekend will deepen community and advance recovery especially in the places survivors are most often stuck, and enable you to celebrate and risk your full self in relation both to others and inside yourself with power and with joy.

We recognize how challenging connection can be, especially when one has suffered sexual and emotional violation.  As a result, some may struggle with a history of harmful or difficult patterns of relating to others and to themselves.  This is an opportunity to heal the wounds of relationship on many levels.

As always, both in our MH (who conducts Weekends of Recovery for male survivors) and our TBO (who conducts Weekends of Recovery for female survivors) communities, special attention will be paid to safety and boundaries both by the facilitators and within the community of participants.  

The challenge of an advanced weekend is also its greatest gift: exploring the possibilities for deep repair and greater connection.

This Joint Advanced Weekend of Recovery will be conducted as an in-person event at the rustic Silver Bay YMCA in upstate New York.     

Silver Bay is located 1 ½ hours east of Albany, 4 hours north of New York City, 4 hours northwest of Boston, and 4 hours east of Syracuse. For further information about Silver Bay, click here.   

In compliance with CDC and New York Health Department recommendations for COVID-19 precautions at the time of this event, specific guidelines and procedures will be implemented to maximize safety for participants and Facilitators as well as Silver Bay staff.

  • ALL participants will be guaranteed single room occupancy, with exclusive access to their individual lodging space for the duration of the weekend
  • All meetings, meals, and other activities will be structured to insure recommended physical distancing protocols amongst our group and during interactions with others who may be present on-site at the same time as our event
  • All participants, facilitators, and staff will be required to adhere to safety guidelines that are recommended by CDC during the time of our event, including physical distance/face masks/use of sanitizer protocols

Silver Bay YMCA – Conference and Family Retreat Center – is located on the shores of Lake George.  The Center’s 700 acres campus inhabits beautiful waterfront on one of the cleanest lakes in the world within the Adironack Park of New York State.

The weekend is designed to provide a mixture of large group community activities and small group breakout sessions. Although we will be sharing the Conference Center with other groups for the duration of our weekend, we will have private spaces for our large and small group sessions. Large groups will be conducted in the spacious William Boyd Center, which includes adjacent spaces for small groups.

The Main Lodge provides comfortable lodging. For this event, all participants will be allowed single occupancy rooms, with the option for room sharing upon request.

The Weekend schedule will allow time for rest, relaxation, and reflection. You may want to join a mindfulness walk, a leisurely afternoon, or just share time with a peer from the comfort of the rocking chairs on the front porch. 

Meals at Silver Bay will be of the highest quality. Special dietary requests are easily available. All of your food and snacks are included in your registration fees. 

About Weekends of Recovery

Completion of a Level 1 Taking Back Ourselves or MenHealing Weekend of Recovery (WOR) is a prerequisite for Alumni to attend this Advanced WOR.

This Advanced Weekend will begin at 12 noon on Friday, July 23rd and end at 3 p.m. on Sunday, July 25th. Participants should plan to arrive Friday morning and be ready to attend lunch at 12 noon on Friday; as well as to plan post Weekend travel to allow them to remain in attendance thru the 3 p.m. closing time on Sunday. No late arrivals will be allowed to join the event.

Participants who wish to arrive the day before the event may have the option of add-on lodging at Silver Bay for Thursday night.  We will know about additional room availability by May 16th. Meanwhile, if you register before that date, we can collect your information for a waiting list and let you know.

Other resources for Thursday night lodging may be available at nearby Ticonderoga or Adirondack, each town about 12 miles from Silver Bay.  For a camping option, check the Rogers Rock Campground and Recreation Area.

A sample schedule and agenda for this Advanced Weekend is available, but the final schedule may be subject to change.

The Facilitator Team for the 2021 Joint MenHealing / Taking Back Ourselves Advanced Weekend is comprised of both Facilitators from both MH & TBO: Tosin Akindele, Denise Ballnik, Chad Corbley, Jess Gusberg, Kenton Kerby, and Mikele Rauch


Registration for the 2021 MenHealing / Taking Back Ourselves Advanced Weekend of Recovery on Intimacy, Relationship and Using Our Voice opens on March 16th, 2021 and will remain open until July 9th . You are encouraged to register early as our weekends frequently fill quickly.

The basic registration fee includes 2 nights lodging (Friday and Saturday), meals from Friday lunch thru Sunday lunch, and all program fees. Add-on fees for additional meals and lodging is included with the registration information.

A non-refundable $150 deposit is required at the time of registration. No other steps in the registration process will be activated until this deposit fee has been received. Options are then available to pay the full cost of your registration or to pay in increments. However, any registration which is not paid in full by June 23, 2021 will be subject to cancellation. Any cancellation after June 23, 2021 will be subject to the loss of all monies paid. 

We do not want cost to be a barrier for anyone to attend any of our retreats. 20 - 80% Financial Assistance grants are available for this Advanced Weekend of Recovery.  Financial Assistance Grants are considered in order of submission.  Please apply NOW.

Help Support A Survivor Who Has Financial Needs

Many of our participants benefit from the generosity of scholarship assistance. If you are in a position to make a financial contribution to our Assistance fund, you can make a donation through our website. Thanks for any help you can provide.

If you need help navigating the scholarship or registration process, please feel free to email our office coordinator Trisha.

Cancellation Policy: Due to the limited number of spaces, please let us know immediately if you will be unable to attend so that we can allow a waiting list registrant to attend. 

All cancellations made before 30 days prior to event date will allow refund minus $150 non-refundable deposit; no refunds will be issued during final 30 days prior to event date.

Exceptions to this policy will be considered for instances where your cancellation is due to circumstances related to COVID. Please contact Trisha Massa if this is applicable for your need to cancel.

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